The word Scripture uses when it says confess your sins does not mean say sorry. The Greek word is homologeo. Homo — same. Logos — word. To say the same word as someone else. Not to apologize. To agree. Instead of calling a short fuse a personality trait call it what Scripture calls it — wrath. Instead of calling constant worrying just how you are wired call it anxiety rooted in unbelief. Confession is agreeing with his word instead of your softer version of it. Most Christians have spent their w

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